How to make any celebration liberating, brave, and meaningful.
All of us face the question: How do I become something new without losing myself? Mark O’Connell reflects on conflicts that arrive during wedding transitions, as well as various other transitions throughout your lives.
As a psychotherapist, O’Connell offers ideas to bridge relational gaps with your partner, family, and friends. As a professional actor, he also offers insight on how to increase creative collaboration in all of your relationships.
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Praise for Modern Brides & Modern Grooms:
Review in The Knot
Review in Out Magazine
Review in Journal of GLBT Family Studies
Editorial Reviews
“No matter what circumstances surround your relationship or what kind of wedding you want, Mark’s perspective and advice will prove invaluable to working out the kinks and having not only your dream wedding, but better communication with your significant other, family, friends, and in-laws.” —Liza Monroy, author of The Marriage Act
“This is the most timely book published this year. O’Connell’s book is a breeze to read, filled with wonderful examples of what he calls ‘queer marriage’ and illustrated with examples from his own marriage to another man, as well as from other marriages. It is a pleasure to read. I expect his next book will be about queer adoptions. And why not?” —Charles Silverstein, PhD, gold medal winner for lifetime achievement from APA and coauthor of The Joy of Gay Sex
“So, your wedding day . . . It has to be perfect. Mark O’Connell’s book immediately allows you to take a deep breath and say, ‘We can do this!’ It’ll help make your dream a reality with stress-free planning, communication, and love for your wedding day.” —Del Shores, award-winning director and writer of Sordid Lives
Interviews and Press:
Interview with Psychology Talk Podcast with Dr. Scott Hoye
Interview with The Atlantic: Why More Couples Are Getting Married By Friends
Interview with Gayweddings.com: Gay or Straight, Modern Couples are Choosing Similar Paths
Interview with Mashable: The Golden Age of Same-Sex Weddings Has Finally Begun
Interview with Brides Magazine: 5 Marriage Misconceptions
Interview with Brides Magazine: How to Choose Who Walks Down the Aisle at a Same Sex Wedding
Interview with Brides Magazine: Do You Have to Wear Your Wedding Ring Every Day?
Interview with Brides Magazine: How to Find the Right Officiant for Your Same Sex Wedding
Interview with Brides Magazine: 5 Things Guests Shouldn’t Say at a Same Sex Wedding
Interview with The Knot: Name Changing Advice for Same Sex Couples
Interview on Gay News Radio with Brandon Carmody following the historic Supreme Court decision on Marriage Equality: 6/26/15
Gay News Interview Preview: “Why did you write this book?”
Radio Interview on The PLAYroom with Coach Casey: 3/10/15
Imago Relationship International Think Tank with Dr. Tammy Nelson: 1/28/15
Imago Interview Preview: Who is this book for?
Full Imago Interview
Same Sex Wedding Tips for All Couples in Inside Weddings
Modern Weddings Explode Gender Roles in LGBTWeddings.com
Planning a Same Sex Wedding and Getting Unsolicited Advice in The Knot
Oped and Excerpt in Truthdig.com
Modern Brides & Modern Grooms Launch Gala: A Broadway Cabaret to Benefit IHI Therapy Center